You are going to die. Something will kill you. Disease, an accident. A virus, cancer, a heart attack out of the blue. Something unexpected. Something that could never have been predicted. Yes, sooner or later, and you cannot know when, you are going to die. Even if you have a healthy immune system now,…
What the heck is Electronic Voice Phenomena (EVP?) How is EVP a benefit to a bereaved parent? EVP is a means of receiving actual audio voice messages from a person in spirit, received through electronics. It is an astounding phenomenon by which we can cooperatively work with those who have crossed before us, to receive…
Quite often on this journey as a Medium, I do readings for Parents with children in Heaven. I do readings for children who have parents in Heaven. There are siblings missing siblings, and husbands missing wives, and wives missing husbands. Within those readings, is the love and understanding that their loved ones continue on even…
Dear Dad, I want you to know that I see you, the real you. I know you keep it together for everyone around you. You are so strong in how you carry on for all those you love. You find quiet moments to yourself to think about me and how it used to be….
Dear Mom, I wish you could see your own brilliance. I want you to know how bright you truly are. When I left my body your heart broke open, all colours turned to shades of grey, and you felt like an empty shell. You no longer believed you fit in anywhere. You felt like…
Do they see me cry from Heaven? Does it make them sad to see me cry? Someone told me that my loved ones in Heaven are held back by my grief, is this true? These are questions that I am often asked by clients and I wanted to take a moment to touch…
Extract from the question and answers session with Medium Michelle Stokotelny on Esther’s Rainbow Facebook Community on 5th June 2020: Q: “What happens after we die? How do we cross over?” A: “This brings me back to when I was with my grandmother two years ago and she was preparing to transition. The words just…
The role of mother is a deeply sacred one. The journey of mothering however, is often fraught with challenge and yet dappled with fragrant moments of indescribable joy. To experience the joy of love and belonging is one we mother’s treasure. Yet when the child / teenager we love departs our lives, whatever the circumstances,…
Yesterday I received this question: “Tom – I am having a lot of trouble even saying I believe I can heal, because I don’t understand what it means to heal from grief.” I don’t believe healing is a destination. I don’t believe I’ll wake up one day and say, “Done with that. I’m all healed…
A few months ago I had a reading with one of my favourite mediums, she encouraged me to start writing on this website again, saying that my guides were going to help me. I did not take on her advice at that time, partly because I was too busy with life, and partly because I…
